Tuesday, December 2, 2008

Broken Friendship turned....Acquaintance?

Friendship is not just built on trust, but with respect as well. The respect between two 'good' friends once violated, causes the friendship to be broken. It isn’t easy, and sometimes impossible to restore a friendship, and mostly if ever mended, it’s never being the same.

I once had a misunderstanding with a friend of mine. I even considered him as no longer my friend but rather an acquaintance. It was because of his thoughtlessness and impertinence (...read "My friend...sucks!"). What I did... I never speak to him. Once he talks to me, I don't respond. It was really hard and awkward because we're living in the same room. The same scenario lasted for 5 days.

I realized, allowing bad feelings don't benefit me at all, rather it's my lost. Then I give up, okay I lost the game! It's always nice to have peace in mind. Anyways, I asked him for doing such a friendly act to me, and guess what...he doesn't even know what the real score of my resentment is! Whaaaaaat........ Stupid brat! It's funny, right?! But, I told him not to do such thing for it's really disgusting, disgusting and ...disgusting!

True friends are hard to find and keep. You will meet many friends, but perhaps just few will be true and sincere. I had six, and then I had five, now I have six again... and I don't want to lose them.

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